My Two Boys

I’m not sure that I say this enough, but I have two amazing kids.¬†They are both sweet and adorable and they make me laugh constantly with their bizarre shenanigans. They take my breath away on a regular basis.

How? How did I get so lucky?

It’s incredible to me how different from one another they are, though. I can’t help but marvel at how two kids that have been parented mostly the same can be so very different. (Nature, I guess!)

Jack, my first born, is creative, funny, and sensitive…he has always had a carefulness about him that makes him seem older and wiser than his years. He has a unique way of looking at the world that influences everything he does – and really, everyone around him.

He worries about the future…about growing up and his childhood being gone before he is ready. I find it a bit strange considering the fact that his life thus far has not been exactly carefree, but it is one of the reasons why I am endlessly curious to see what his future holds and how he navigates this life.

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Showing off his dragon drawing at the oncology office.

Dez, on the other hand, is fearless and determined, albeit goofy as heck. He is not even two yet but this kid is full of energy and life. He never stops moving and is constantly keeping us on our toes. He reminds me of that old game on ancient cell phones called Snake. As the snake eats he keeps growing and getting bigger than he (or anyone else) can handle. But no matter how big he is or how many things he runs into, he gets back up and redirects himself around the obstacles.

His drive is completely foreign to me but already I admire him (all while knowing I will go fully gray by the time he is a teenager).

Dez taking a walk.

Dez taking a walk; he loves going outside.

The boys love each other so much. When Jack comes home from his dad’s, Dez is so happy he breaks into peels of laughter. He just can’t contain himself. They play together often – sword fighting with pool noodles or tickling one another or chasing each other around furniture. Our house is loud and boisterous.

I wanted this, dreamed about it for years, yearned for a house full of children laughing. I have my dream life!

I don’t always enjoy it, though. It’s not so easy to remember to do that when I’m running around preparing various meals, running to doctor and dental appointments, struggling over homework or diaper changes, constantly picking up after a toddler who doesn’t stop moving, the lack of sleep… It’s hectic and it’s easy to get swept away in the whirlwind of life with young children.

But I cherish these boys and my little family with every fiber of my being. I hope they know it.

All About That Baby

Desmond is 8 months old. I just…how? How is he 8 months old already? He’s like a real person! He loves and laughs and chases our pets and has thoroughly become an integral part of our family.

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He is 18 lbs, 9 oz and 28″ long. He is in 12 month clothing.

The positional plagiocephaly we were monitoring has been downgraded from moderate to mild. It’s almost gone completely!

He’s been crawling for a while now. It started with creeping around 6 months and now he does a weird combo of the army crawl and an inchworm type of thing. He’s clearly got his own way of doing things. He is starting to climb, too. He can climb right over me to get to an electronic device or the dog.

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He likes the sounds of rattles, crinkly toys, and honking toys, and he goes directly for a hard surface whenever he can to smack it or bang a block against it. He pushes toys and books through the bars of his crib.

We’ve started solid foods, albeit slowly. He is enthusiastic, even if he doesn’t exactly seem to like anything I give him. The exception to that would be when I recently let him nom on part of my pizza. He LOVED that.

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He is teething hardcore. Any day now his two bottom middle teeth are going to sprout. ANY DAY.

He is totally interactive now. He can hide under a blanket for a bit of “Where’s Desmond?” and he loves to knock over towers.

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He grabs noses and smooshes his face into mine, gumming my cheek and drooling all over me. He loves to copy a fake laugh. He is very chatty, as well. He says a lot of “di da di da da.” Sometimes this can be disruptive, like when we’re trying to watch TV or sleep at 6am.

He started clapping two days ago.

He loves his big brother. Every time he sees him, he starts laughing proactively; he knows Jack will do something crazy to entertain him!

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Jack, Desmond, and cousin Sabrina

Altogether, he’s pretty awesome. I think we’ll keep him.

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He’s Here

On September 2, 2014, at 12:43am, we welcomed our new baby Desmond to the world. He measured 19″ and 7 lbs. 1oz. He was born without a single push on my part!

We are madly in love. Jack met him on his first day of life and said, “This is one of the happiest times of my life!”

Our dog Lambert is channeling Lassie and thinks he should come to Dez’s rescue at the the littlest cry. Lambert even leads David to me when Desmond needs to nurse. We keep trying to tell the dog that we have it covered but he clearly doesn’t think we’re very good at this baby thing.

I’m hoping to get the birth story up soon! Stay tuned!