One of the hardest parts about this portion of the cancer journey is the lack of attainable milestones. There are three phases to Jack’s treatment regimen, and we’re in the third and longest portion – Maintenance. While Maintenance is supposed to be the least intense phase because the treatments are more spread out, they stretch out across two and a half years. Jack started Maintenance in October 2012, so our next milestone is…
March 15, 2015.
That’s a long way off. Right now it feels like the end of treatment will never come. It seems like we have an endless number of doctor appointments, medications, procedures, blood draws, and dressing changes ahead of us. And through March 2015 we’ll surely worry about fevers and infections and side effects and fatigue and keeping our jobs and paying bills.
Rather than focusing on the depressing difficulties ahead, we distract ourselves. One way to do that is to create other things to look forward to, which Jack has done through the Make-A-Wish Foundation. Last year he met with the Bay Area chapter of Make-A-Wish and submitted his wish to meet Lady Gaga (go check out his video!). We’ve been patiently waiting for his turn since.
Recently Lady Gaga had to cancel her tour due to her own health challenges. Not only are we sad to hear that she is having health problems, but we are bummed that the granting of Jack’s wish – a milestone we were looking forward to – will be delayed, as well. That wish means a lot to our whole family. It means hope and inspiration and excitement and happiness and light in the dark. It means some manner of relief, which is difficult to be found during a cancer battle no matter how many people offer support. I’m sure you can understand why we are a bit fixated on it.
With Jack’s wish being delayed and new waves of exhaustion settling upon us, we decided to distract and rally ourselves with a new goal: the East Bay Walk For Wishes. The Walk For Wishes is a 5k walk that raises money for the Make-a-Wish Foundation. The East Bay Area chapter hopes to raise enough funds to grant wishes to sixteen children – a total of $120,000.
Our team is called Jack’s Juggernauts and we are (at the moment) eleven people strong! Our team aims to raise $7,500, which is the average cost of ONE child’s wish. My personal goal is to get to $1500 and right now I’m only a little over $400 away from that. I know some very generous people!
Many of you have just finished your taxes and are either getting back refunds or bemoaning your tax bill. Either way – you can do yourself a favor for next year and get a tax deduction by donating to our walk. You don’t have to itemize for donations to count and, in many cases, your employer will match your donation.
If you would like to help us out in our efforts to rally our family and help out kids who are facing life-threatening medical conditions, please donate. Any amount helps.